31 Flavors of Spring Sexuality
You've heard of 31 flavors of ice cream, but these tips and ideas for the month of romance will really make you melt.
Spring is here , the kids are out of school, and we're ready for the warmer weather. You might think there's no time to spice up your relationship right now, but we think otherwise. Studies have shown that being intimate could be just what you need to improve your mood, making it the perfect time to turn up the heat in the bedroom with 31 of our best sex tips and positions.
Try a new sex position
One of the easiest ways to add excitement to the bedroom? Forget missionary and try one of these new positions!
1. The Corkscrew: While you lie on your side, your partner straddles your thigh and enters you from behind. You can relax and enjoy the pleasurable rhythm while she enjoys the view.
2. Face to face. Sit your partner in a chair or at the foot of the bed, and sit on their lap, facing them. Play with rhythm and depth to find the perfect position while you both watch the fun.
3. Doggy style. You're on all fours, and your partner kneels behind you. This position makes G-spot stimulation and deep penetration easy! Already have one of your favorite positions? Spice it up with clitoral gel .
4. Spooning. With both of you lying on your sides (backs to her body), let her enter you from behind. The best part? Your hands can be free to explore and stimulate her intimate areas.
5. Face Down: Lie on your stomach with your legs together, keeping them straight so they're tightly pressed together. Already have a favorite position? Try activating your pelvic floor muscles (like Kegel exercises) for added stimulation that both you and your partner will enjoy.
6. G-Spot Enhance missionary by inviting your partner to hook your legs over their arms or shoulders so you can target the G-spot.
7. Wheelbarrow. Enjoy deep, pleasurable penetration by getting on all fours (like doggy style). Then, your partner grabs your pelvis and gets moving!
8. Standing rear entry. Both of you stand while your partner penetrates, bending at the waist. Your partner's hands can pay close attention to your breasts or clitoris.
9. Cowgirl. You've probably already heard of this one! It involves kneeling on top of your partner or straddling them. Being on top allows you to rest your hands on their chest (if necessary) and set the pace.
10. Honest Citizen. Start in the face-to-face position on the bed or chair. Wrap your legs around your partner's waist as they lift you up. For extra stability and to make it even sexier, have your partner lean their back against a wall!
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11. Non-penetrative sex . Touch, tease, and excite your partner with your tongue, hands, and more. Adding a vibration to the sensual pleasures of non-penetrative sex will boost your sexual arousal. Embark on a journey of sexual exploration.
12. 69 It wouldn't be fair to include this classic. Mind-blowing, simultaneous oral pleasure for both of you! For added comfort, lie on your sides.
13. Vibrator. Try a new vibrator. Or use your favorite on a new area of your body. Many vibrators are so versatile in shape and size that they can be used on a variety of problem areas, so get creative!
14. Costumes. Playing with fun or daring costumes can add mystery and excitement to intimacy. You and your partner can be whoever you want!
15. Lubricants. Lubricants can enhance the sexual experience and take it from good to amazing. Not only can you experiment with new flavors and sensations, but they'll also make sex more pleasurable for you and your partner.
16. Enhancer gels. Rub stimulating creams or gels on your erogenous zones. Whether it's the clitoris, G-spot, breasts, or penis, the increased tingling and sensations will intensify sexual sensations.
17. C-rings. C-rings prevent blood from leaving the penis and make erections firmer and potentially longer-lasting. Try a vibrating C-ring, which can also directly stimulate the clitoris for even more fun! Need a step-by-step guide to C-rings? We've got you covered .
18. Pleasurable Pegging Try a strap-on dildo that can be used by women or those without penises to add penetration to the mix in a new way.
19. Edging: You bring your partner (or let them bring you) to the edge of orgasm and then stop abruptly. Repeating this sequence several times almost always results in orgasms that are not only more intense, but also more satisfying.
20. Warm Massage Session. A warm, sensual massage withthe Heart Massager can be very erotic! Take turns rubbing and massaging and discover where desire takes you.
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21. Sensual shower play. Spice up your sex life by enjoying the shower, pool, or hot tub. Don't forget silicone lubricant and a waterproof toy! Bathing together (instead of showering) can also be erotic, so try a sensual bath bomb or warm light to set the mood.
22. Change the subject. Try being intimate at a different time or place than usual. Cars and the outdoors are favorites! Remember, public sex can be especially exciting, but be careful not to get caught, as rules about outdoor intimacy vary around the world.
23. Play with food. Incorporate sensual flavors into your sexual repertoire. Lick some honey or whipped cream off your partner's breast and enjoy the magic. Sound delicious? Check out the dos and don'ts with food in bed.
24. Private Film Festival. Prepare a couple of porn movies that interest you both and enjoy an unforgettable night. Sharing the experience allows both of you not only to be a little vulnerable, but also to explore excitement and fantasies that can liven up your relationship long after the couple's film festival.
25. Bondage. Use duct tape to restrain arms, legs, ankles, or other body parts. Being dominant or submissive can be exciting! Adhesive tape doesn't remove body hair, so the focus will be on sexual pleasure.
26. Anal sex. Good hygiene and plenty of silicone lubricant can make anal sex a favorite experience for many couples. Even men enjoy penetration or prostate massage! If you're already experienced with anal sex, consider adding a prostate massager.
27. Nipple clamps. If you and your partner enjoy nipple play, using nipple clamps can enhance any sexual experience and revitalize your relationship. Learn more.
28. Handcuffs. Metal, silicone, or leather handcuffs can add much-needed excitement to any sexual encounter. Consider leather or metal if you like the idea of a rough or hard material around your wrists, or if that seems potentially uncomfortable, opt for silicone or lined/padded leather.
29. Blindfolds. Experiment with blindfolds to heighten all your other senses. Every touch, taste, and smell will seem so much more sensational. Even sounds will be more vivid! Don't have a blindfold handy? Try a scarf or tie if you're in a hurry!
30. Impact Play. A little naughty or nice? Try a beginner paddle and start gently. Maybe add some light restraints to tease and increase the pleasure. There's so much more to learn about the wonderful world of kink !
31. Fantasy. We all have sexual fantasies. Don't be shy. Share your deepest sexual desires with your partner and then explore...
Bottom line: Make time for romance this month! No matter which or how many flavors you try, you (and your partner) will be glad you did.