Lend a hand… with a toy

Want to spice things up? Please your partner with a vibrator by following these tips to get started!

A A vibrator is the same as any tool: a means to make your job easier. But you probably didn't learn how to use a saw or a complex software system on your own; someone helped guide you through the process. That's why we're here: If you're looking for some tips, check out these simple steps to please your partner with a vibrator.

Watch and learn.

Think about the first time you were given a cool new piece of technology. No one just handed it to you and said, "Go for it!" right? Of course! They let you see how it was done first. Ask your partner to do the same with their sex toy. They can show you exactly what they have in mind so you'll know what to do when it's your turn.

Take it easy.

Developing any skill takes time; no one starts out perfect from the beginning. Apply the same patience to your skills with sex toys. Some clitoral vibrators also double as massagers, so start by massaging your partner on innocuous areas, like their shoulders or the back of their neck, until you feel comfortable with your new bedroom tool. Once you've mastered the handling and technique, try using the vibrator on your partner's nipples.

Focus on the clitoris.

Did you know that the clitoris contains more than 8,000 nerve endings in a tiny bulb? Jackpot! The problem is that most vaginal sex doesn't stimulate the clitoris enough for someone to reach orgasm. Focusing your attention on this key spot will help your partner climax and make you a hero.

Expand your repertoire.

You don't stop using your tools or technology once you've mastered a piece, do you? True! Try your hand at more complex projects and platforms that require more sophisticated equipment. Do the same in the bedroom. Try a couples toy that gives both of you the sensations and stimulation you crave!

Let's be honest: It'll take some time to become an expert at using sex toys. But don't give up! Take your time and practice, and it will be worth it. Trust us: your partner will thank you for it.