IS HANDIWORK SHINING?
Picture this: You're in high school in your partner's dark basement. You're on the couch, and things are going horizontally. The heat rises as you prepare for practicality. But then, you hear the basement door open, and you both jump and struggle to buckle up and right yourself before a parent sees something they can't unsee.
Ah, memories.
The typical handjob can bring you moments like these. But we're all for the return of manual labor... with a little education, of course. If you're a beginner or want to perfect your strategy to see better results, read on for a 10/10 performance score!
Prepare your hands
Preparation is key before performing an expert hand job. And no, it's not just about washing your hands (but please do). Trim your nails to ensure you avoid unnecessary scratches. Also, moisturize ! Not just on the day of. Make it part of your routine. This isn't just good for a sexy moment, but soft, moisturized hands will make you feel more confident every day of the week.
Get comfortable
The secret to an amazing sensual experience: comfort. While we all imagine that having sex against a door while someone holds you would be ultra-sexy, unfortunately, there's a time limit on how long your partner can hold you. If you're uncomfortable, they'll notice. Wear something you feel confident in, do some handstand stretches, and get comfortable! Some positions we recommend are sitting side by side, straddling your partner, or having them stand while you kneel. The latter also puts you in a great position to kiss them... all over.
Go slow
A runner wouldn't jump 100 meters without warming up and stretching first. It's the same concept with hand jobs. Progress slowly toward the bottom. Start with kisses and gentle caresses as you progress. Even when you're in the midst of all that passion, maintain a solid pace and don't rush to get it over with. The journey is just beginning, and you still have so much more up your sleeve.
Use a lubricant
We always recommend lube because it's an easy way to enhance any sexual adventure. For a manual job that involves a lot of friction, we recommend using a warming lube . This seemingly magical tool starts cold but increases the heat with warm breath or friction. Plus, it comes in a variety of flavors in case your handjob turns into an oral pleasure. Check out all the options to give your partner an exceptional time with any of our lubes .
Use pressure
Everyone enjoys something different, so it's important not to get distracted. Pay attention to how much pressure you're applying. Too hard? You could accidentally hurt your partner. Too gentle? They're not getting enough! Pay attention to the sounds they make and adjust from there. If they haven't been moaning in a while, increase the pressure.
Explore the area
Don't limit yourself to just the penis. Just as women have a cluster of nerve endings in their clitoris , men also have more nerve endings at the tip of their penis. Pay attention to it throughout the manual labor. Also, don't neglect the balls. Gently squeeze and tug on them, but keep in mind that some are more sensitive than others and may not enjoy too much action.
Why Not Both?
Translation: Why not both? You may be used to using just one hand, but mix it up and use both (you'll need to be in a good position to do this comfortably). What could you do with two hands? Well, use one on top to tease all those extra nerves at the tip of the penis while your other hand moves on the bottom. Or gently rotate your hands in both directions.
Add toys
Changing things up doesn't hurt. If you're looking to differentiate the sensation, try a masturbator where you can control the speed and pressure while enjoying a different sensation. A sex toy can also be a great way to add vibration to the penis or balls while you focus on the penis.
Keep it simple
If you're new to handjobs or just trying a new technique, try to master one before moving on to more complicated strategies. If you're a pro, don't try all the techniques at once. These can be overwhelming. Stick to two or three and pay attention as your partner enjoys them. The best way to keep it simple is to ask your partner what they like. Communication can take all the confusion out of the bedroom.
Stay the course
As you approach the end (or the beginning, if this is your foreplay), now is not the time to change your technique. The time to change things up is at the beginning. If your partner is getting aroused, maintain the speed, movement, and friction until she gives in to ecstasy.
Now we're handing the baton over to you so you can become a professional handjob master. Practice all these techniques to make your next bedroom adventure unforgettable.