The Ultimate Guide to Female Orgasms
You probably already know that the clitoris is the source of sexual pleasure. With over 10,000 nerve endings , it's literally DESIGNED for orgasms. You're probably already familiar with other types of orgasms: the internal vaginal orgasm and the hidden pleasures of the G-spot. But your body has TONS of orgasmic potential. You just need to know how to tap into it.
So join us (sorry, not sorry) as we bring you the ultimate guide to female orgasms.
Clitoral orgasm
As we've noted before, the clitoris has over 10,000 nerve endings, making it the body's quintessential pleasure spot. It's no wonder it's become the focus of so much attention. In fact, research shows that 36.6% of women surveyed said they needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and another 36% said that while they didn't need it , adding it into the mix during sex enhanced their orgasms. That's nearly 73% of women! It's no wonder the clitoris has become a focus of female pleasure.
Toys to try
Due to its popularity, the clitoris has a wide variety of toys that can help you reach your orgasmic potential. Our recommendation? Joystick This slim, flexible vibrator may look basic, but its long range and powerful vibration mean you can get aroused virtually anywhere you want.
G-spot orgasm
Another much-discussed (but often overlooked) orgasmic pleasure center is the legendary G-spot. Located 2 to 3 inches (5 to 7.5 cm) inside the vagina, along its front wall, this spot can deliver intense pleasure when stimulated. The easiest way to find it is to insert two fingers, facing upward, and make a “come hither” motion. The area is notable for having a softer texture than the surrounding tissue.
Toys to try
Need a little more help finding your way around the area? Our GPS cream is specially formulated to stimulate the G-spot, making it easier to locate and adding a pleasurable little tingle, making that much-vaunted orgasm that much easier to achieve.
As far as toys go, Showstopper It is perfectly designed to stimulate the G-spot. Its curved shaft targets the area with precision and the added vibrations are sure to get the place buzzing.
Vaginal orgasm
The last of our three "common" orgasms is the vaginal orgasm. You probably aren't familiar with it. Vaginal orgasms occur when penetration stimulates the vaginal walls. These orgasms tend to feel "deeper" in the body, and the partner can usually feel them when these walls pulsate, often by grabbing the penis or the toy that caused the stimulation.
Toys to try
Just about any insertable toy should be able to do the job, but one of our favorites is Hits The Spot . Don't be intimidated by the tasseled whip, because the handle is what matters! This double-ended toy features a powerful vibration and a textured shaft that will give you everything you need to go all the way.
The pleasure of taking the wheel
Ready to go off the beaten path? You may have theorized about the rest of these orgasms, played with them, or even experienced them. But these less common climaxes are no less pleasurable (some can even give you the best orgasm of your life!)—they may just be harder to achieve, harder to define, or completely unknown to you.
As we delve into these new types of orgasms, just remember: when it comes to orgasm, exploration is its own reward.
Rolling orgasms
If you've ever experienced this, your first thought was probably "Holy crap," quickly followed by "How can I do that again?" Some women can experience multiple orgasms one after the other. Research isn't sufficient to determine the exact percentage of people who can experience multiple orgasms in a short period of time, but we do know one thing: they're very lucky.
Toys to try
Take your pick! If your body is capable of producing more than one orgasm in a short period of time, a vibrator may be the most reliable way to achieve this feat. While your partner may tire (you should keep getting your cardio in!), the incessant vibration of a toy may be exactly what you need to keep your engines roaring.
Orgasm at spot A
This may sound new to you. The anterior fornix erogenous zone is an area located inside the vagina. For simplicity, most people simply call it the A-spot or A-spot .
The A-spot, which is located a few inches from the G-spot (about 4 or 5 inches total), is often best reached with a toy, but fingers (or a well-endowed partner) may also be able to reach it. If you massage this spot with gentle pressure and motion, you'll probably notice that things are getting a little... wetter than usual. Even those who don't necessarily orgasm from this stimulation often find that it increases their natural lubrication and makes it easier to orgasm in other ways.
Toys to try
The Triple Orgasm Machine has the range to get the job done, but we recommend starting your exploration with the vibration off until you've found the right spot, gradually moving towards more and more intense stimulation.
Anal orgasm
You know what they say: don't knock it until you've tried it. Anal sex may be taboo for many, but it's been proven time and time again that many find pleasure in it. In fact, one study found that 100% of men and 94% of women who received anal sex had an orgasm. Now, to be completely transparent, although 1,931 people were surveyed, only a total of 56 people responded that they had received anal sex. So, while these numbers definitely require further research, there's still no doubt that both men and women can find anal sex pleasurable.
If you're interested in exploring anal sex, there are smart and safe ways to do so. However, in our brief overview, we'll be concise with our advice: start small (there are plenty of toys and plugs for beginners) and use lubricant. Vaginas self-lubricate, but anal canals don't! Silicone lubricant is highly recommended for anal exploration.
Toys to try
Our Pure Pleasure silicone lubricant is a must-have for anal play, as it doesn't absorb into the skin as quickly as water-based lubricants, and our Mesmerize vibrating plug is soft, flexible, and offers seven vibration modes that will have you discovering the wonders of anal sex.
Squirting orgasm
Like a blurry image of a human-shaped figure lumbering through the woods, many think of female ejaculation as a myth, a pornographic gimmick, or a story told by an embarrassed woman who was too caught up in the moment to go to the bathroom before having sex.
But it's real!
Squirting is (often) the result of G-spot stimulation, and can be done with fingers, toys, or a penis, and is often accompanied by the sensation of a sudden need to urinate.
That said, female ejaculation isn't urine. While the fluid itself comes from the bladder (and contains urine), the squirt isn't the result of someone having so many orgasms that they urinate.
As demonstrated in two different studies , the bladder, which was emptied at the beginning of the test, begins to fill as a result of sexual stimulation. As the G-spot is stimulated and an orgasm occurs, those fluids are "expelled" and the bladder empties (again).
“That sounds a lot like urinating,” you say.
But here's the thing: While the ejaculate analysis did contain urine, it also contained fluid from the Skene gland, often called the “female prostate.”
Still confused? Think of it as if you filled a pitcher with a blue powdered drink mix, emptied the pitcher, and then refilled it with water. That water would likely still be tinted blue, right?
This fluid from the Skene gland helps with lubrication of the urethra, and an increased amount is produced during sexual stimulation to also help with vaginal lubrication.
TL;DR: No, squirting isn't a myth. Yes, squirting is normal. No, you're not peeing.
Nipple orgasm
Nipple sensitivity varies from person to person, so the experience may vary in terms of ease or difficulty, but it is entirely possible to achieve orgasm with nipple stimulation alone. Manual rubbing or pinching, oral stimulation with the lips, tongue, or teeth, or the vibration of a sex toy can all bring you to climax. Even if you can't seem to orgasm, breast stimulation can help the whole process move along, so there's no reason not to include it during your solo sessions or sex.
Toys to try
If your nipples enjoy a little vibration, then almost any vibrator will provide the stimulation you're looking for. But if you enjoy the pain and pleasure that comes with pinching, we recommend nipple clamps . Use them while masturbating or during sex to heighten your arousal and take it to the next level.
Orgasm Exercise
Sometimes called "coregasms," these are orgasms that occur spontaneously during core exercises. Scientists have some theories, but they're not entirely sure how or why they occur. Let's list them as just another benefit of regular exercise!
Sleep orgasm
Sleep orgasms are, as you might have guessed, an orgasm that occurs while you're asleep. Of course, this can happen when your dreams get a little sensual, but there's also a more biological cause. During REM sleep, the clitoris can become super sensitive (think morning erection, but for vaginas), so a simple turning in bed or rubbing against the sheets can send you into an orgasmic jittery state at the most unexpected moment.
Yes, they're "wet dreams." Although most people think of them in relation to people with penises, people with vaginas can also have wet dreams.
If this doesn't encourage you to sleep more, is there anything that will?
Full body orgasm
Do you know what it's like to be sitting at your desk or on the couch and suddenly get a shudder that makes your whole body shake? Imagine that, but it's an orgasm. Your muscles tense, your back arches, your toes curl... your whole body explodes into orgasmic ecstasy. That's a full-body orgasm.
There's no easy way to achieve a full-body orgasm, but the best advice is to relax, be patient, and focus on stimulating multiple erogenous zones at once. Take your time, involve your partner, if you have one, and... enjoy.
Blended orgasm
Blended orgasms are a combination of orgasms that all occur at once. However, when most people talk about this type of orgasm, they are specifically referring to clitoral and vaginal/G-spot orgasms, especially since there are sex toys specifically designed to target those spots simultaneously. These dual-action toys feature a clitoral stimulator and a penetrative shaft that can also curve upward to target the G-spot. This unique combination of sensations is often considered the ultimate orgasm, unleashing powerful pleasure and intensity unmatched by a single orgasm.
Toys to try
Ready to experience this sought-after O? Check out The Adventurer Curve . This unique toy features air-powered clitoral stimulation and a vibrating shaft that's powerful enough to get the job done, yet small enough to allow your partner to slide underneath, creating a tighter experience for them and more pleasurable pressure for you.
Come as you are
There you have it! Your ultimate guide to female orgasms. Remember: there's no right or wrong way to orgasm. Pleasure (and exploration) is its own reward.