LIVIN' LIBIDO CRAZY: WHY SEX AFTER 60 IS ON THE RISE
Great sex at any age is music to our ears. Surprisingly, the peak time for sex in your life isn't between your 20s and 30s. New research shows that most people in their 60s are having the best sex of their lives. In fact, 74% of sexually active people after turning 60 say their orgasms are as good, if not better, than ever.
Let's analyze the study's numbers and, if you're looking to do it in your 60s, what are the best ways to explore your sexuality and live a crazy libido.
60 is the new 50
The Kinsey Institute survey results show that two-thirds of respondents say being sexually active is beneficial for the mind and body. But only 21% report having had partnered sex in the past year. Why is that? Unfortunately, there is a shortage of men. In 2021, there were 124 women over 65 for every 100 men.
But sex changes as we age , according to respondents' reflection on their bedroom experiences. The majority (57%) say sexual experiences are satisfying even if they don't reach orgasm. Furthermore, most women say penetrative sex isn't necessary for an intimate experience. They're exploring more with cuddling, kissing, massage, and delving into that deep personal intimacy that often doesn't come with the one-night stands experienced by twentysomethings.
Common problems
We're not saying there aren't some challenges as you get older. 57% of respondents say their desire is lower than it was 10 years ago. This can be due to many reasons, and there are solutions for all of them.
You may be experiencing vaginal dryness that makes sex or masturbation uncomfortable. There are a wide variety of lubricants that can help ease the discomfort. You may not feel as much “spontaneous desire” and need more foreplay to get in the mood. Talk to your partner about how to initiate intimacy by rubbing your back, flirting, or cuddling. But if you're struggling with sexuality, the number one recommendation is to talk to a doctor who has experience with menopause .
Solo play
We mentioned earlier that there's a shortage of men as we age. But given that more than half of those surveyed say they've indulged themselves in some self-love over the past year, there's a way around this obstacle. 56% of those women say they turn to a sex toy when it's time to masturbate. As an intimacy expert, we have some great options for your toy chest if you're over 60 or just in the mood.
THE ADVENTURER'S CURVE
Enjoy luxurious accents, air pressure, and G-spot stimulation for a feast for the senses. Sometimes, as you age, it can take longer to reach orgasm. But with a dual-action toy that combines vaginal and clitoral stimulation, this is the perfect combination for your needs. Plus, the massager curves to position itself on your favorite pleasure spot while you enjoy stimulation with strokes, pulsations, or air pressure.
DIFFICULT TO HANDLE
An ergonomic handle and powerful vibrations? Yes, please! This dual-action vibrator has two arms, so you can decide whether you want simultaneous stimulation, clitoral stimulation, or vaginal stimulation only. The flexible design allows the toy to be customized to fit different body shapes so you can enjoy the contact you crave.
OPENING CEREMONY
Talk about options! This 30-function vibrator is ergonomically contoured to dance on every curve. It can also be used as a powerful massager to soothe tense muscles. Try it in the bedroom, bathroom, or anywhere you like.
Don't be afraid to change things up in the bedroom. Your taste buds change over the years, so why wouldn't your sexual appetite? Experiment with new techniques as you get older, and you'll discover that sex is like a fine wine... it gets better with age.