Get ready for sex
We've all been in relationships that have gotten a little... comfortable. The spark is still there, but the fun and novelty have lost their luster. Especially when that short-term relationship turns into a long-term one, it's easy to get stuck in the same old ways. You're just going through the motions and doing the things you already know work.
While there are simple ways to spice up your sex life , sometimes you just need a break from reality to really reconnect, physically, with your partner.
Enter sexcation.
What is a Sexcation?
We all know the wonders of sex on vacation , but what about a vacation dedicated exclusively to it? Long weekends with your partner, relaxing, having sex, and possibly not getting any sun at all. Who could ask for more?
Sex vacations are a way to eliminate all of life's distractions (kids, work, household responsibilities) and really spend time together being a little wild, away from your usual stresses and surroundings.
Getting away from everyday life can help you step out of your comfort zone and open your mind to new and exciting ways to explore another's body.
Where to start
First of all, be smart. Sure, it's a vacation, but you're not going to sit on a beach or admire the scenery: you're going to see how many times you can orgasm and whether you still have enough strength to stay in a handstand while your partner… well, does whatever they have to do.
We say all this to tell you: maybe you shouldn't spend a lot of money on a 4-star hotel in that huge city with all the museums, theater shows, and live music.
Consider a vacation rental, a lake house, or a cabin. Instead of flying, find a remote location a few hours away by car (preferably with poor cell service) and create your own little sexual oasis there.
Once you've booked, the important thing is to prepare. Send your partner some photos of what you might wear during your sexual encounter to get them excited, or maybe send them a picture of an empty suitcase and tell them you've already packed all your clothes.
Of course, dirty talk is great, but you also have to be practical. You're trying to bring something new to your relationship, right? Well, instead of just talking about what you want to do with each other (which is also a wonderful idea), make sure you're clear about what you literally want to do. Especially in a long-term relationship, the dialogue is likely already frank and open. Talk to each other about what you love about your sex life and what might be a little boring. Mention fun, naughty things that interest you but are always a little afraid to try. You might discover something new about each other and your relationship before you even leave on your trip!
This can also help both of you connect emotionally. Sure, sex and relationships are fun, but they're also incredibly meaningful. Maintaining a healthy dialogue and emotional connection can only help intensify the physical connection.
Setting the mood
Now that you've got everything booked, it's time to pack. First, you need to think about the basics: candles, playlists, Bluetooth speakers—everything that will really help set the mood.
Of course, a new environment will do half the work for you, as it will take you out of your usual mindset and into a new one, but taking the time to create a totally sexy environment for you and your partner can do wonders for putting you in the mood. Think about what simply turning off the lights can do for your usual nighttime sessions—it's that, multiplied by ten.
Giving it a spicy touch
Next, you need to think about how you plan to spice things up. New lingerie ? Great start. Some new positions that can help you find that perfect angle? Absolutely. How about a tickling balm to add some fireworks to your make-out sessions? Or maybe a flavored lubricant or enhancer that can help take oral sex to the next level? Yes, yes, and of course.
Okay, so you've got your sexy outfits and foreplay accessories... but what about the toys?
Most people think sex toys are something you can only do solo, but that couldn't be further from the truth. There are many sex toys that can be used with a partner, and some are even designed specifically for sex.
For example, the C-Vibe is the perfect toy to add to your intimate encounters. Its curved shape allows it to be inserted into the vagina while placed next to the clitoris. Its powerful motor will provide you with all the vibrating orgasmic pleasure... while your partner inserts himself right under the inserted toy. Yes, this toy can literally be used during sex.
Next up, something you may have heard of but may not have considered: cock rings .
A cock ring is a silicone ring that, with the help of a little lubricant , slides to the base of the penis and helps it stay harder for longer. That's great, right? More time to masturbate. But cock rings take things to a whole new level: vibration.
Yes, these rings can turn your partner into a human vibrator.
Rings like the Double Feature have powerful vibrating motors that rest on the clitoris and deliver the orgasmic pleasure you crave. They'll even encourage you to explore new positions to find the perfect angle for maximum stimulation.
Ready to get started? There's no better way to get back in sync physically with your partner than to set aside time to truly connect. Sex breaks are a fantastic way to escape the stresses of life and focus exclusively on your partner and the intimate connection you have between you.
What are you waiting for? It's time to book your best weekend yet!
Credits : Bri Rhone