Massage is an extremely underrated intimate activity. It can serve as a reward or gift, be the centerpiece of a relaxing evening at home, or be a wonderful way to simply share time with your partner... not to mention a great way to spice up foreplay.
So let's set the mood with a sexy playlist, dim the lights, and light some candles. Here are some simple tips for a night you'll both remember.
Set the mood
Arguably the most important step is setting the right mood. It's all about creating the perfect atmosphere, and it's the little things that matter. Get rid of distractions like the TV and phones, and make sure the little ones are in bed. Then, dim the lights, find a relaxing playlist on your favorite streaming service, and grab some scented candles to help you and your partner find a romantic mood.
Grab the essentials
If you only choose one thing for your massage, make it a massage oil. The right oil can enhance and create a warm, silky sensation that will elevate the entire experience.
A great option is Knead Me , our easy-rinse massage oil. Infused with skin-loving botanicals like grapeseed, argan, and jojoba oils, this oil soothes and hydrates while enticing the senses with the scent of sparkling coastal waters and a hint of citrus zest.
Or, if you want to heat things up, try Burning Desire . This soy candle releases an exciting aroma when melted in warm oil. Place it on your partner's body for some fun sensory play, then melt away your worries and stress.
Want to take things up a notch? Then try our HēLi Massage Oil with Hello Libido . This next-level massage oil combines smooth, moisturizing coconut oil with Hello Libido, a seductive essential oil blend that balances mood-enhancing ylang-ylang, stress-relieving lemon balm, and anxiety-reducing sandalwood to excite the senses and invite feelings of passion and get you in the mood.
Improve your technique
Knowing how to use your hands is easy to learn, but difficult to master. Long strokes, circular motions, varying pressure, and adding knuckles and elbows to the mix are all tried-and-true techniques that take time to learn and perfect. But it doesn't have to be difficult! Get more details on how to master a sensual massage here . Stack the deck with a few additions to your repertoire.
First up:Heart Massager . This reusable, heart-shaped heat pack heats up to over 129°F/54°C. Use it with a little massage oil for the sensation of a hot stone massage. Place it on your partner's back while you work on other areas, or rub it up and down for a soothing warmth that can help stoke the fires of passion.
Or maybe you're looking for something a little out of the ordinary? Check out In Good Hands . These silicone gloves are textured on both the palms and backs to allow you to explore your partner. Simply slip them on, add some massage oil, and let your partner sink into sensual bliss. You can even slip in a vibrating bullet to take your foreplay to the next level!
And speaking of vibrating…
Add some vibes
Ready to take the experience to 11? Then it's time to add a massager. Vibrating wands can help work out those sore muscles, not to mention add a little kinky fun to your foreplay.
The Opening Act is the perfect prelude to the main event. With 30 vibration functions, it has enough power to get the job done, whether it's working out knots or teasing hot spots. Use a little pressure and movement to help relax your partner's muscles, or dance along their nipples or groin to stimulate and arouse. A wand like the Opening Act is a fantastic way to enhance your massage and foreplay!
Don't forget to communicate!
The most important part of physical intimacy is communication! If you're getting the massage, talk about what you like and don't like. Is a particular spot too sore for all that pressure? Shout it out! Do you have a spot that could use a little extra attention? Let it be known! And if you're the massage therapist, listen! Get feedback and adjust accordingly. And if your partner isn't talking, ask questions. Make sure their silence means you're doing everything right.
Listen to your bodies, too! If it's time to ditch foreplay and move on to something more intimate, your body will start letting you know. Just make sure both partners are on the same page to ensure a fun and sensual evening.