ALL ABOUT POINT A
Vaginas are complicated.
And just when you think you've got it all figured out, a new way to orgasm pops up. While you probably think you already know how it works down there, there's always new research, new products, and new techniques going viral that help you discover new ways to stimulate your pleasure center.
A-spot stimulation is one of those techniques that's having its moment in the spotlight. And this often overlooked spot in the vagina can be a game-changer for those looking to increase their pleasure.
What is point A?
The anterior fornix erogenous zone, or "A-spot," is an area located inside the vagina, a few centimeters beyond the G-spot, on the anterior vaginal wall. This area has been studied since the 1980s, but it has not yet received as much recognition as its cousin, located a few letters lower in the alphabet.
Unlike the G-spot and the clitoris, the A-spot isn't known for its ability to directly trigger an orgasm. But that doesn't mean it's not worth exploring. While the other two may be more of a main attraction, the A-spot is perfect for foreplay. Stimulating it can produce plenty of natural lubrication and help increase arousal, setting the stage for orgasm.
Therefore, it is also an ideal area for women who suffer from vaginal dryness. In fact, In one study , two-thirds of participants who suffered from vaginal dryness found that A-spot stimulation helped them have a more comfortable experience during sex.
How to find point A
If you know where your G-spot is, you're already halfway there. Along the anterior vaginal wall (the side closest to your stomach), just beyond the G-spot, you'll find the A-spot. It's usually 10 to 12 cm inside the vagina. It's usually 10 to 12 centimeters inside the vagina.
Fingers can work for this, but if they're too short or you find it's too much of a stretch, don't be afraid to use a toy. (And it goes without saying that you should use plenty of lube, regardless of how you penetrate.)
Explore slowly as you go deeper: there are sensitive areas (like the cervix) that can cause pain or discomfort when applying pressure. If you're having trouble finding it, don't be discouraged! Because it's so deep in the vagina, the A-spot can be difficult to locate. But once you find it, you'll likely feel wetter and more aroused.
Use gentle side-to-side, circular motions, or other light strokes to stimulate the vaginal wall. The key is continuous stimulation, not in-and-out motions. If you're using a toy, turn off the vibration when you begin exploring and focus on pressure and movement. This spot can be slow for some, so take your time.
Tips for testing
Once you're more familiar with the A-spot, you can begin exploring ways to incorporate it into your intimacy. Here are some tips to get you started, but never be afraid to explore your pleasure!
Double the fun. Stimulate the A-spot along with the clitoris for an intensely satisfying experience. (Maybe put a towel on first.)
Get closer to your partner. A penis can work just as well as a toy or fingers and can provide a more intimate experience when you and your partner start slowly, focusing on deep penetration and stimulation.
Explore the postures. Speaking of adding a partner, there are a handful of positions that can help stimulate the A-spot:
- Missionary : Placing a pillow or cushion under your hips during missionary can help create an angle to better stimulate the A-spot. If you're flexible enough, you can also try bending your knees toward your chest to shorten the vaginal canal and provide more direct access to your partner.
- Doggy style: Penetrating from behind can also help shorten the vaginal canal, making it easier to access the A-spot. Using pillows, cushions, or other furniture can help create the perfect angle for stimulation, while also helping to relieve tension in your back. Incorporating these objects into doggy style will also add gentle pressure to your abdomen, which can help intensify the pleasure. Another great alternative? Our position strap, Come From Behind . It can help apply this same pressure and find the best angle, while giving your partner more leverage.
- Anal sex - If you enjoy anal sex, adopting positions that allow the receiver more control, such as being on top, can allow for exploration to find the perfect angle to anally stimulate the A-spot.
From A to G
We hope we've helped you discover some new things about your body that you didn't know before, and with the revelation of the A-spot, whet your appetite for sexual exploration!
With so much interest and attention (finally!) being paid to the female orgasm, we're constantly learning and coming across new ideas and techniques to enhance pleasure.
Never be embarrassed or discouraged if something doesn't work for you, or if you find something uncomfortable that others find mind-blowing. And never be afraid to explore something new. Pleasure is not unique.
Happy hunting
Credits: BRI RÓDANO