Mind-Blowing Vibes: The Best Ways to Love Yourself
Self-care is everywhere these days, and like any trend, it's spawned a ton of alternative ideas and definitions. There are endless lists championing beauty-related ideas one after another. It's okay if none of them appeal to you. As a reminder, the core idea of self-care is that it's an expression of love for yourself—your body and mind—through means that you find pleasurable. No one else has to be part of your self-love journey (unless you want or need them to be and the focus remains solely on you), nor do you have to limit yourself to non-sexual ideas.
Masturbation is an experience that depends entirely on you. Guiding your body through the highs and lows of pleasure is not only amazing, but has many other benefits as well . We love the experience, but if you're looking to explore yourself in new ways, toys can help. Even if this sounds old hat, stick around. We're talking about five toys of all shapes and sizes, and different ideas on how and where to try each one.
A quick recommendation before we continue: use a lubricant . In my opinion, it's not optional. (No, not even if your floor is already a slide.) The idea that lubricants only relieve vaginal dryness is a thing of the past. The truth is, they also contribute to overall comfort and a better feeling, so choose the one you prefer and enjoy it.
Main attraction
Let's start with a classic: the infamous "rabbit" vibrator. (A nickname for dual-action vibrators, a nod to classic designs with bunny-ear or bunny-shaped ticklers.) If you've never tried simultaneous internal and external stimulation, you're in for a surprise. These toys are designed to vibrate in two areas to stimulate the vagina and clitoris. If you're new to clitoral stimulation or this type of simultaneous stimulation, dual-action vibrators may help you understand why orgasms aren't achieved through penetration alone.
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Going from classic to something completely new! Discover this small and versatile vibrator. What I love most is its articulated design. You can bend each textured end and it will stay in place! It's ideal if you want to play with pressure while stimulating your favorite areas.
New to pressure play? It's easy. Choose your favorite area. For gentle pressure, hold one end of the toy so it barely touches your skin. The vibration creates stimulating and stimulating sensations that can be amazing for your most sensitive areas! For more intense pressure, bring one end of the toy closer so it presses against your skin. This vibration creates a deeper, more pronounced sensation. Tip: Experiment with different types of pressure and movement from the sides of the toy to the tips to see what you like best!
The adventurer
Our star vibrator easily gets 5 out of 5 stars, in my opinion. From its shape, you'll have guessed that yes, it is a clitoral "suction" vibrator. I say "suction" because the motor doesn't draw air in. The end with the rounded opening surrounds and practically suctions the clitoris for a precise sensation that will have you seeing stars in the best way.
One way to make this toy a complete experience is to start at the other end and use the textured tickler on sensitive areas. Try gently stroking it or holding it against any spot you like to increase arousal. Don't stop at just one spot; explore from head to toe and discover new sensations. Then, switch to the other side when you're ready to finish.
Keep dreaming
Don't let its discreet shape fool you—this is an all-in-one toy. A great choice if you enjoy broad stimulation. This round vibrator is firm enough to apply good pressure, yet comfortable thanks to its silicone coating. This means you can use it for massages and masturbation. Pressing and rolling the toy over sore muscles is a fantastic experience, especially when paired with one of our massage lotions or oils .
Of course, it would be remiss not to mention a little self-love. Our idea is that this toy allows you to explore your body. Increase arousal by moving it near your erogenous zones (or wherever you prefer). Then, when you're done with the excitement, increase the intensity by holding it against your skin or even slowly rolling it back and forth.
Mirage
Last but not least, we have the smallest vibrator on the list. Although compact and battery-operated, this bullet vibrator is a marvel. Illusion is small but powerful. Supposedly named for its cylindrical shape, bullet vibrators are often recommended for those new to toys. And with typically simple designs, it's not hard to see why: versatility. But it's also a great option if you want to get straight to the point. If you're already aroused, choose this toy for clitoral stimulation that will satisfy you every time. If you eventually feel like slowing things down a bit (Round 2? Yes, please!), consider exploring your vulva with the toy. Even if this hasn't convinced you much before, give it a try. Likes and dislikes change over time, so you never know!
Try one or try them all! Each of these vibrators will give you the opportunity to explore your body in new ways. So get comfortable, put on your favorite erotic show or sensual playlist , and let the magic happen.