New year, new sex life
Every new year is a time for renewal, reflection, and resolution-setting. We all know the usual resolutions (losing weight, quitting vices, etc.), but what about pleasure? How about focusing on what makes us feel good instead of focusing on "fixing" something? No matter your relationship status, 2025 is the perfect time to set some goals you can actually accomplish. Let's start with the "why" of focusing on pleasure and share some ideas for resolutions that will boost your intimacy, starting with yourself.
Why make sexual resolutions in 2025? Simply put, in a constantly changing world, prioritizing sexual pleasure and health is a way powerful to start the year on a positive note. Not only does it boost your confidence, but it can also deepen your connection with your partner(s) and create new paths to joy and fulfillment. So, let's get to it!
1. Commit to self-care
Self-care isn't just a buzzword: it's the foundation for exploring and appreciating every inch of your body. This year, make a resolution to prioritize your pleasure, whether that's playing alone with your favorite toys, taking time to explore new ways to express sensuality, or even learning new techniques to enhance your pleasure.
By putting your satisfaction first, you deepen your connection with yourself. and You open the door to new experiences. After all, the better you know your tastes, the better you'll be able to please yourself or explain them to your partner. So buy a new toy , take that pole sex class, start a sex journal... and make it your goal to do it all in the name of pleasure.
2. Put the conversation first
Continuing with our first idea, we'll reiterate that sexual resolutions don't have to involve the actual act of having sex with other people. They can be about the before, that is, communication. Whether you're in a serious relationship, living a hookup life, or something in between, making communication a resolution can be a radical game-changer.
“But it’s awkward!” you say. And we feel you. It can be awkward when you’re stuck in your own head over your own fantasies or worried that your words might make someone feel bad or inadequate. But remember this: Growth doesn’t happen when things stay the same. Think about it. If a little discomfort when talking about trying a new kind of pleasure tool or something you read in a book can lead to a better connection and better sex, isn’t it worth a try?
3. Embrace body positivity and confidence
Your body is wonderful, and fully accepting it is a great resolution for this year. Start by celebrating your body and its unique beauty, and work on cultivating sexual confidence. Whether it's exploring different forms of self-expression, practicing affirmations, or positive phrases, or by adopting lingerie that makes you feel good, confidence can translate into more satisfying sexual experiences, whether alone or with others.
Don't feel connected to the body positivity movement? That's okay too. Adopt body neutrality It's also a worthwhile aspiration that can inspire confidence in and out of the bedroom. Shifting your focus to functionality and gratitude can foster a healthier relationship with your body.
2025 is the year to embrace your pleasure without guilt or hesitation. Making sexual resolutions isn't just about checking boxes; it's about fostering a deeper connection with yourself and/or others through intention and exploration. From solo play to better communication with a partner to self-image, these resolutions are all about improving the quality of your sex life. So, as the new year approaches, take a moment to think about what you want your journey to sexual wellness to look like and make it a year of unforgettable pleasure.